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Conflict Transformation

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Fill in the form at the bottom of this page to book a free discovery call (30 mins).

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I offer generative conflict support rooted in the principles of transformative justice, striving to create space for mutual healing, accountability, and collective growth.

Conflict is a normal part of human relationships. How we deal with conflict and harm when they inevitably happen is largely a questions of our ethics and values. How we deal with harm in our interpersonal relationships asks us to wrestle with hard questions — What kind of world do we want to build? How do we want to be treated when we have perpetuated harm? Do we really believe that people have the possibility to grow, transform and heal?

As an abolitionist, mediating in the transformative justice lineage, I am called to help shift the focus from punishment to collective healing, from retribution to responsibility, and from isolation to community. This approach is especially supportive for interpersonal conflicts within friendships, collectives, communities and organizations.

Unlike more traditional approaches that focus solely on resolution between parties, the processes and practices I call in seek to acknowledge the realities at the root of conflict, addressing underlying issues of power, harm, trauma and systemic inequities.

This approach involves deep listening, empathy, and co-creation of solutions that respect the dignity of all parties. Together, we will strive to move through facilitated exchanges that prioritize understanding and mutual responsibility. By addressing the impact of our actions over just the intent, we work together toward resolutions that are hopefully equitable and, when it makes sense, restorative.

It goes without saying that my own lived experiences will play a role in the power dynamic of the support I can provide. Check out my About Me page to learn more about the perspectives and lineages I bring to my work.

My pricing scale for conflict support

Read more about sliding scale here.

Service
Pro Bono
Low
Middle
High
30 minute discovery call with up to 3 people who are commissioning / paying for the support. Based on this call I will propose a program
free
free
free
free
Hourly rate sessions are typically 60-90 minutes depending on the number of people involved, and it may take between 3-8 sessions depending on the nature of the conflict and the relationships, which will be suggested in the support program
0€
100€
125€
175€
Per-diem for mediation delivered in person
15€
20€
30€
40€

I am a small business / Kleinunternehmer.

Fill in this form to request to book conflict transformation work with me ⬇️

Generative Conflict Support

Please fill in this form if you would like to schedule a free 30 minute discovery call, to see if it makes sense from both sides for us to work together. More info about pricing at https://sarj.cc/work/conflict-transformation. Please note that I am a solo practitioner and it can take me some days to reply. Thank you for your patience.

Your name and pronouns*

Email*

Phone *

Can you describe in 200 words or less what the nature of the harm or conflict and who is involved?*

If I think this is something I can support, I’ll reach out to you about booking a call. If I don’t think I’m the right person or I don’t have capacity right now, I’ll let you know and if possible direct you to other folks/resources that might be able to help. It’s also important here for me to know the names of folks in the dispute, so that I can identify any conflicts of interest that would prevent me from taking the case. The submissions of this form remain confidential. If you don’t feel comfortable sharing names at this stage or in an online form, feel free to book the call and we can discuss then.

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